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More_guy2004 — Thu, 17 May 2012 02:08:44 GMT

I'm not sure if I'm seeking advice or just venting here..so I guess if you have advice feel free to share. :)

But I've known this guy now for about 5 months. He and I became close friends in a short period of time. Nothing more than that...just friends. Every morning he would make it a point to send me a text, even if it was just to say "have a good day!" We were constantly texting each other when we weren't actually together.

About a month ago he contacts me and says he desperately needs to borrow some money immediately. Without hesitation, I loaned him the money even though I did worry if I'd get it back or not. I mean I hadn't known him all that long so I wasn't sure if he would pay it back or not. But it was a chance I was willing to take.

Well he was a man of his word and paid me most of it back. He offered it all back to me but it would have put him back into a financial hard spot. So I told him to just give me part of it back and then give me the rest of it later. And I'm not the least bit worried about him not paying me the rest of it. I know he is honest.

BUT, the problem is, it seems to have strained our friendship. When we do see each other out he will talk to me like always. But the texting has stopped almost completely. If I text him, he rarely replies. We don't hang out anymore. We go for days at a time and I never hear from him; whereas before I loaned him the money, we were constantly in contact with each other.

I don't know if he is embarrassed by having to ask me for the money or what. But honestly, had I of known it would strain our friendship, I would not have loaned it to him. Has anyone else experienced this?

Getting Boyfriend an iPhone Dock: Is Anyone Familiar With This One?

Lostlover — Thu, 17 May 2012 01:53:48 GMT

Altec Lansing inMotion Classic IMT620 review - gdgt

Decent reviews.

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can you dance?

refujiunderground — Thu, 17 May 2012 01:41:16 GMT

no. :( a rhythmless black man. i think intoeing makes it look a whole lot worse than it already is. *cries*

Am I justified in being irritated and upset about this?

BlondeCanadian — Thu, 17 May 2012 01:10:07 GMT

So this guy I have been talking to for three years and I were planning on finally meeting up in a couple months (I was going to fly to visit him and take time off of work) When I look on his dating profile and it says in an open relationship. I of course ask him about this thinking we talk almost every day why would I not know about this?... Turns out he has been seeing a guy a year and been in an official three month open relationship with him. I ask why he did not tell me and he says that he didnt think I needed to know because it would not change anything between us..

Mind you I never thought anything beyond fuck buddies and friendship was likely, but there was still a possibility there. If he didnt think this would change anything between why did he never mention it when I thought we were friends. He assumes that I would be okay with fooling around with someone who is in an open relationship (I am not sure how I feel about this, like if both him and his partner were fucking around separately i dont think it wouldbe a problem). I am hurt he didnt tell me, disapointed slightly and a little wary because I can help feeling llike I do not know him and shouldnt trust him..He thinks I am being irrational and dramatic

plans to visit are on a indefinite hiatus

Man gets upset at false advertising and calls police in

star-warrior — Thu, 17 May 2012 00:25:41 GMT

Anal?? yes/no/why??

7seven7 — Thu, 17 May 2012 00:23:24 GMT

Hey everyone :-) just joined on here and have a question. Does anyone else like other kinds of sexual stuff better then anal or don't want it/or give it up every time?? Seems like so many guys i meet just want to go right for it..thx!!

You Wouldn't Believe What I Saw Today: Even Worse than the Skidmarks in the Underwear at the Gym

Lostlover — Thu, 17 May 2012 00:16:17 GMT

My neighbor down the road, an older male in his early 70's, asked me to come to his house to look at something on his computer. He has always been a nice, humble, funny, married father of two. He does like to hear himself talk, but that was expected. I came prepared for him to talk my ears off... but instead what I found blew my mind.

About an hour into the visit, I was installing anti-virus software onto his computer. I went to a web site to download AVG's software for his computer. And because he sat at the desk and I sat behind him, I had to strain my eyes to type in AVG into the search bar. As soon as I hit the A button on the keyword, the browser showed that he typed in "animal sex" into the search engine...

ANIMAL SEX

(*S*)

:##:

My mind was completely in the gutter. Afterwards, he was yapping about living in Alaska and how he went on welfare for 6 months while living there. He told me that he bought a gun and hooks and fish bait with the food stamps as Alaska covered these items as "food" to get people to hunt for their own meals. Once he told me this, I started seeing him fucking a bear behind a tree.

Its Dinner Time!

tiexgrr — Wed, 16 May 2012 21:58:24 GMT

So I'm pretty bored and got curious, what is everyone having for dinner? I'll Start!

I had Steamed Asparagus with a side Garden Salad with Cucumber, Tomatoes, Cashews, unsalted Peanuts, dried Red and White Cranberries drizzled with a touch of Raspberry vinaigrette. As well as Chicken Tournedos

No I wasn't cooking for anyone in particular I just got bored xD

So what did you all have hmm?

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I don't like prons where they but all clothes out in 20 seconds. When you know what i mean.

Yes i know that an Jeans or better Ripped Jeans Fetish is ill. But i like that.

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Lawmaker�s letter calling for Arafat, Sharon talks an error

White Eagle — Wed, 16 May 2012 21:40:56 GMT

Republican congresscritter is really up on the foreign affairs. Maybe the GOP should think he has a chance for President in 2016.
Too bad I couldn't have found this before a correction was sent out.:lol:

Lawmaker sends constituent letter calling for Arafat-Sharon talks | JTA - Jewish & Israel News

Quote:

Lawmaker�s letter calling for Arafat, Sharon talks an error

May 16, 2012

WASHINGTON (JTA) � A Pennsylvania congressman apologized for sending out a letter that called for Middle East peace negotiations between the late Palestinian leader Yasser Arafat and the comatose former Israeli Prime Minister Ariel Sharon.

The office of U.S. Rep. Joe Pitts, a Republican, said Tuesday that the letter to a constituent picking up language from an old form letter was sent last month in error.

"Thank you for contacting me to express your concerns," the letter began. "... With the global war against terrorism, it is now incumbent on Prime Minister Ariel Sharon and Palestinian Authority Chairman Yasir Arafat to clamp down on Palestinian extremists that have perpetuated violence and to restart a peace process."

My Ass Is Horny For Cock

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glory hole-[GH-19]-(glory hole-blowjob-swallow-piss play)-part-1-of-1_

charles-smythe — Wed, 16 May 2012 21:15:33 GMT

Glory Hole
Part-1-of-1
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My wife, Leigh and I both love to suck cock. I know some will look down on me for this and call me a �queer,� but I'm here to tell you, you�ve never had a sexual experience like the one when you let another man shoot a load in your mouth and you feel each burst of cum hitting the back of your throat. I can empathy with supposedly str8 guys because I'm basically in the same situation as them, I do love women. I don't really have any attraction to a man but show me a hard cock standing tall and it makes my mouth water! I'm a long time married guy that has fucked more women than I can count on all my digits. Eating pussy was my forte, but nothing has turned me on as much as sucking a cock to completion. Your mind will go euphoric as it receives the tactile signals that another man is cumming in your mouth It's a mind bending experience counting the number of shots as you swallow each and every drop of his cum. you will then understand why women give men blowjobs.
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Of course you�ll have to put aside all the negative homophobic rhetoric the religious community has put on same gender sex. I find it curious that the Catholic Church made up of people that do not have sex, make the sexuality do's and don't rules for the people who do have sex. Now how fucked up is that? Maybe that's why so many priests have to turn to pedophile to �get off?�
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A couple years ago Leigh saw a video of a woman sucking cock through a glory hole and it turned her on so much she had to check it out for herself.
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�Go for it,� I told her. �It's better than joining a bowling league.�
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So we did a little research and found an adult bookstore with viewing booths not too far away.
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At first we walked up and down the aisles checking out the front part of the store. Leigh is and has always been, a knockout. She's 5-foot 3-inches tall; weighs about 125 lbs; has long, straight, blond hair; narrow, almost perfect facial features; and an athletic build. Her waist could best be described as 'petite' and is accentuated by her small, yet pert breasts and a very tight shapely little ass. Due to her looks we attracted a lot of attention while we were walking around the store.
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Then we went into the back where the booths were and walked around for a little to get a feel for the place. The quasi-chlorine smell of the semen was intense. That combined with the musky smell of sex and male sweat that permeated the air in the room at this point for me was a primal, erotic mixture but Leigh wasn't a fan of the smell. Fortunately as we continued to walk she got over it.
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Due to the rarity of women in the viewing booth area, before we even entered a booth we saw a guy start rubbing his cock through his pants trying to get Leigh to notice, but she just ignored him. We walked into a booth that had holes in the wall on both sides and like all viewing booths it was a seedy dirty place filled with cum all over the floor.
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No more than 20-seconds after we went in there was a hard cock sticking through one of the holes. I was pretty sure it was the guy we�d just seen outside.
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My wife, Leigh was a little nervous so I said, �I�ll start it off.�
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I started stroking the cock with my hands for a couple of minutes and I then grabbed Leigh�s hand and put it on the cock. It looked about 5-inches long and very thick. Leigh really started getting into it, her hand moving quickly up and down his shaft. Putting her hand on the back of my head, she pointed the dick in my direction and pushed my head towards it.
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Right away I took the whole thing in my mouth so deep that my face was almost against the wall and started gleefully sucking away. I was slurping so much that within a minute or so I had spit dripping off my chin. Leigh couldn�t take it anymore. She pulled my head away and sucked the dick into her mouth.
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I think the guy knew exactly what had just happened because he started moaning as soon as Leigh�s lips closed around the shaft of his cock.
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He only lasted about 30-more seconds before he shot his load in her mouth. When he pulled back through the hole, there was some cum on Leigh�s chin so I leaned over, licked it off for her and then gave her a big cum filled kiss.
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I looked around and noticed someone was looking through the hole in the other side of the booth watching the action.
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As I moved towards it and a huge cock came through the hole to greet me. I was face-to-face with a very large and very hard cock. It was standing straight out, giving me a view that made me dizzy with lust: his glistening shaft, veins bulging in every direction. It had a dark plum-shaped head with a droplet of pre-cum beading up and dripping ever so slowly off the pee-slit.
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I started by licking it all over before taking it in my mouth. But it was too big to get it all in. undaunted I jerked it as I sucked.
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When I looked over to see where Leigh was she was already working on another cock in the other hole.
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I excitedly told her to, �Look at the cock I have in my hands.� One look and she immediately left the small cock she was sucking to come help me with the huge one I had.
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We both eagerly licked and sucked on it together for a while.
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Then I lifted Leigh�s dress up and pulled down her panties so the guy on the other side could at least get a good look at Leigh�s fine ass and pussy. It didn�t last long though before Leigh got up and moved her ass over to the huge cock and started rubbing the engorged head on her ass and up and down her crack.
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I could tell Leigh wanted to slide the big monster into her pussy so bad but we have a rule about bareback with guys we don�t know very well.
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She eventually went back to sucking on it and I was more than glad to jump back in and help her when she came up for a breath.
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I few minutes later he began to thrust his big cock in and out so we knew he was about to cum. Leigh just held her head still as close to the wall as she could while he face fucked her hard. When he went off his load was so big that cum started pouring out her mouth onto the floor.
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When he was done he pulled away and again I gave Leigh a big kiss. I wanted to taste all the cum too.
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I motioned for her to go back to the other hole but she wanted to take a breather so she said, �You should stick your cock in the hole.�
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My cock was already as hard as a rock so I did; I put it in the hole.
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Right away I felt a mouth then lips tighten around it sucking away. I'm much more into sucking a guys cock than getting mine sucked by a guy, but Leigh loves to watch it. It was turning her on more than it was me. Before long she started playing with her pussy.
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I pulled away, turned Leigh around and stuck my cock in her from behind. She was sooo wet that I went in up to my balls. She was loving all of this. I only kept my cock in her for a few seconds then moved back over to the hole so the guy on the other side could taste Leigh�s pussy all over my cock.
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I looked back at Leigh and noticed that when I bent her over I apparently put her face right in front of another cock because she hadn�t moved from that position other than bobbing her head.
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I fucked her a little bit again and then moved back to the hole. I did it a few more times back and forth until I heard Leigh starting to gag on cum and it put me over the edge and I started to cum also into some guys mouth on the other side of the wall.
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Then again I kissed Leigh.
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She couldn�t wait any more and needed to get fucked but she said, �My knees are killing me.� so we left to go fuck in the car where she could lay back and be more comfortable.
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As we left the booth there was about 4-guys right outside the door giving us compliments, one even started clapping.
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I couldn�t help smiling as Leigh pranced proudly across the parking lot, twirling her panties on one finger. I don�t know if it was the same guys from inside or not as we walked, we gathered a crowd. Undaunted by her audience, as soon she got to the car Leigh unbutton her blouse and pulled her shirt tail out so that I'd have complete access to her breasts. In seconds she was on her back in the back seat with her legs spread.
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I wasn't going to pass up a chance to fuck a hot bitch like my Leigh, crowd or no crowd, so I dropped my pants and crawled into the back seat with her. Flipping up her skirt, I moved forward so that my hard cock hovered between Leigh�s parted thighs. As everyone watched in total fascination, as I spread her legs wider. Then I grabbed her hips and Leigh cried out as I entered her. Her high-pitched squeal caused the crowd to smile. Leigh�s long legs were soon up over my shoulders and she was moaning and gasping in time with my steady powerful thrusting. Leigh�s fingers dug into the cheeks of my ass, urging me on, as if trying to pull me in deeper each time I plunged into her. I was pumping her methodically, pushing my all the way in. The others applauded as I slowly pulled my dick almost all the way out and then almost brutally ramming it back in so hard and deep that our flesh made slapping noises as our bodies connected.
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As the crowd watched me fucking my wife, Leigh started to work her hips, ramming her pussy up, meeting my thrusts halfway. In seconds, amid her garbled moaning, I heard Leigh choke out the words, �I�m cumming, oh god, I�m cumming.� I could barely hold myself back any longer and finally gave in to the moment. Gripping her hips tightly, I bucked into Leigh uncontrollably as I cummed long and hard. Leigh�s gorgeous ass bounced wildly on my cock, her clutching pussy sucking the cum out of me as if it were a mouth.
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The others watched while the 2-of us collapsed on the backseat and still caressing each other, we caught our breath. Leaving Leigh sated on the backseat with her blouse open and her skirt flipped up, I struggled weakly out and into the drivers seat. Amid cheers from the crowd we drove away.
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We've gone back 2 other times since then, but none were as fun as the first.
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The end�

On Topic Discussion Having issues finding guys

sumthenliekdis — Wed, 16 May 2012 20:23:29 GMT

If a lot of guys dont hit on me is that an issue? Sometimes I go online to see if guys replied to me and sometimes no one will. Why is that? Is there a type of guy that always get hit on?

ID Help ID bottom in video (and video if possible)

wtvrfrvr — Wed, 16 May 2012 20:12:57 GMT

Hi, you were all really helpful last time, so I have another ID query.
Its All Gay

I came across this video the other day and I was sure I'd seen the bottom (white guy, striped shirt) before. I'd be really grateful if someone could ID him, please. :)

Not usually my type, but found him really hot.

Thanks so much x

Is it possible to go on date with someone after they already said 'not interested' on a dating website?

fallinlove — Wed, 16 May 2012 19:28:50 GMT

Do you think it's possible to convince someone to go on a date with you after they already told you they are not interested (on a dating website)?

I never continue an online conversation once someone says they're not interested. I say thanks and bye. But I'm crazy about this one guy I spoke to -- I know this sounds weird based on just a picture -- but I never felt this way. He's looking for a relationship like me and I really really want to go on one date with him. I just feel in my gut that it will work for both of us. And I kinda know about the guy from other friends and I found out he's really nice.

We chatted a little and then exchanged pics, and then the conversation slowly ended. He's obviously not so attracted. But is there any magic sentence I can say to get him to go on one date??

Something like:

"I know this is not acceptable in the world of gay dating,..and i never do this after someone says they're not interested. but...I'd like to take you out on one date. I insist:) "

Would that work? Anyone read a dating book that gives a better line? I just really want to give it another try.... and say something that will magically work. lol

help:)

I did four loads of laundry on Monday and did 5 loads of laundry yesterday. I have five more loads to do today.

RobGwisdala — Wed, 16 May 2012 19:04:29 GMT

I did four loads of laundry on Monday and did 5 loads of laundry yesterday. I have five more loads to do today.

Retail workers: tell us your customers who slapped you

Paws — Wed, 16 May 2012 18:35:18 GMT

Yes. Today a regular client slapped me in the face.

He's a Turkish karate master and the head of a karate school in a neighbour city. We print the logos and names on the bags/uniforms for all the members. Whenever he enters our shop, he intimidates me or other males by fidgeting around with his arms, "attacking" us and shouting loudly, for "fun". A while ago he noticed that I'm ticklish when he pokes my ribs.

Today he passed by and two female employees and me are busy printing stuff for other clients. My boss comes into the room with him, he starts tickling me and behaving like always. We greet each other and talk a bit, then suddenly he knocks his head on my shoulders, something he never did before and which looked awkward. "Hey, what's going on today with you?" I reply jokingly. He continues a bit, then lightly slaps me on the cheek. "Wow dude, calm down" I say.

I continue printing stuff for the other clients, my boss prints his stuff. They get into smalltalk and joke around. A few minutes later the client turns around to me and knocks his head on my shoulder again, "here we go again" I think. Then all of a sudden, he slaps me a second time on the cheek, this time noticeably a bit harder. Not a serious, striking bitchslap, but I still got seriously mad for his inappropriate behaviour as a customer/client and left the room.

My boss and the employees didn't see the slap, but they all heard it because they were right next to me. My boss gets into a discussion with him what just happened, then the client comes up to me and tells me how sorry he is and "excuse me" and "it was just a joke".

I reply that I don't take any excuse anymore for such behaviour, I don't consider it a joke and just want him to leave.

This is the second time I got slapped at this workplace, first time was the man-hating Serbian female intern. In my teenage years I already got slapped by a East-European "chav". I never was slapped by a West-European person without valid reason.

There are also enough good friends of my boss who pass by for a coffee and taunt or annoy me. He tries to solve such situations by calming me down and finding a solution for everyone, but never really punishes the others because they're important to him.

There are now two things:

1) East-Europeans are completely deranged and I want them to get out of this country. You can now falsely claim me to be a racist - I am the son of immigrants myself and never slapped anybody just because I could, also all this bad experience over all these years gives me the right to say that I'm mad at these aggressive people of East-European descent. On the streets I notice a lot of them slap friends or class idiots "out of fun". Slapping is even the most harmless thing these people do, some victims are beaten up badly by them.

2) I'm really fed up with this workplace, the loony clients and friends of my boss. Unfortunately the only other option is back to unemployment.

Can I have a cookie? All I have is a small sample bottle of vodka :##:

Prefix in hot topics

Paws — Wed, 16 May 2012 18:11:50 GMT

When we want to post a new thread there, we have the possibility to choose a prefix. One of the two has a typo and says "attenion" instead of "attention".

Turning your old Netbook into a Touch screen tablet

star-warrior — Wed, 16 May 2012 18:04:56 GMT

What a nice idea. However, I don't have a notebook, old or new... :(

Turn Your Old Netbook Into A Touchscreen Tablet | Popular Science

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Guys in long-term monogamous relationships, how often do you make love per week or per month?

WestCoastWilson — Wed, 16 May 2012 17:58:05 GMT

Now that I have been in a long-term monogamous relationship for over 3 years, my partner and I make love about 3 to 4 times per week. I was just curious to know what might be the norm for guys in long-term monogamous relationships, as I loo...k ahead of what might can I expect in the years to come.

I’m only interested in answers from guys that are in a “long-term AND monogamous relationship", as if you are in an open relationship, that kinda skews the answer since you are not being sexually exclusive to your long-term partner.

Wilson

Were you treated equally at home growing up?

aaronxp — Wed, 16 May 2012 17:40:53 GMT

Or were you treated differently than your siblings.

I'm curious and I just want to know.
I was treated completely different than my brother as we grew up.
It was like day and night.

Refreshing Political Video

Jack Springer — Wed, 16 May 2012 17:21:02 GMT

I saw this on the Daily Caller site today.

Thought it was good enough to start a post. I like both of these guys -- both seem to having a caring spirit for their state and city and have the ability and desire to work with others.

this is how i feel today

Karen_Walker — Wed, 16 May 2012 17:07:47 GMT

:wave:

Thinking About His Past

imxanemicroyalty — Wed, 16 May 2012 16:13:16 GMT

Hi there!

I've posted here a few times before, and want to thank everyone for giving me a new perspective on things. So I've been increasingly bothered by something, and was hoping I could share here and get some feedback.

I'll start by saying I'm 23, and I'm in a relationship right now, have been for a little over a year with a guy, M. I've only been in one relationship before that, and it was a long one. 6 years, with a guy S. I'd been in really fleeting relationships before that one, hooked up, etc. but nothing that really mattered. However, S had never been in a relationship, had sex, nothing. I was his first everything. So I've never been with someone who has had any kind of past.

Now that I'm with M, I find myself just thinking about his past a lot, and really letting it effect my mood. Admittedly, I'm a pretty moody person. I feel emotion strongly, I probably have more ups and downs than the average person, etc.

Sometimes there are triggers, other times not. Some of the triggers will be things like him telling me a story about something that's happened (before he met me) and a lot of times it's benign stuff. Like he went out to a concert with a friend of his, who kept hitting on him at the concert. And he didn't reciprocate, and the guy got the hint and nothing happened after that. Or the time he hit on the cute guy doing repairs on his apartment, and then the guy friended him on facebook. And from that he decided the guy wasn't his type and nothing else happened after that. Or about him hooking up with a few of his ex's and a friend over various X-mases, and they all knew nothing more was going to come of it. Or him talking to his most recent ex (who he's still good friends with, and who is also married) what seems like a lot to me. You see the pattern? Nothing that should be bothering me, but it does for some reason. I can't get it out of my head, and it's really been bringing me down lately.

I can't even put my finger on what about these things bother me. I'm also sometimes bothered hearing *any* kind of story from his past, because it makes me sad I wasn't around to experience it with him. He doesn't mind hearing about my past at all, which makes me feel like I'm weird for feeling this way. Has anyone else ever been in this position before? Is it normal, and does anyone have advice for dealing with it?

First time posting, shy 19 y/o

n3wk1d92 — Wed, 16 May 2012 16:09:41 GMT

Never posted any pics before. go easy on me.

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Why are older gay men always alone ?

streetblackcock99 — Wed, 16 May 2012 16:01:36 GMT

I just realised, the majorority of men i've been with are like, 40+ and still alone,

is it a lifestyle choice to stay single or is it just that unfortunately they haven't found someone to wife them up yet ?

pursdonally, at the age I am rn, I really ain't finna be in a relashunship, i'm quite happy with my fuckbuddies and random hookups, but, I do hope and pray to the lawd and behby jebus that later on in life, that changes,

because I do like the idea of marriage and mononogamy, just not rn, ya'll feel me ?

where my dilfs at to shed some light and give me hope for the fewture ?

Amen.

ID Help Help ID

anhba — Wed, 16 May 2012 16:01:33 GMT

Can someone ID the model that is bottoming and the video this is from. Thanks

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Redheads

jdubbj — Wed, 16 May 2012 15:01:59 GMT

Do we have a thread for redheads yet? If not, let's start!

Hot and Hairy

agapakia — Wed, 16 May 2012 14:52:50 GMT

He is so amazing and he knows how to give good blowjobs

now he has to do a daddy son video...!!!

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